Reason #1 - You Can End Up Isolating Yourselves and Not Meeting New People - Think about it. How do you feel when you're with your best friend? Need any other people around? If your roommate also happens to be your best friend the tendency for the two of you will be to stick together, chill out and not make an effort to meet new people. This kills the number one reason for living in a residence hall - to meet new people and make new friends!
Reason #2 - Best Friends Don't Try as Hard to Get Along. If you were living with a total stranger you would be more inclined to put your best self out there, having greater concern and respect for their space and things. If you're living with someone you've known for a very long time and are extremely comfortable around you'll tend to abuse that freedom and are more likely to leave the room messy, use their stuff without asking and not follow the rules.
Reason #3 - Miss Out on Major Life Learning Experiences - If your roommate is your best friend you will be missing out on meeting someone new, learning about their different cultural background, how to communicate and compromise and how to deal with conflict. Nothing teaches you more about these life skills and about yourself than living in a situation with someone you don't know.
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